Tuesday, March 31, 2009

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Wednesday, March 25, 2009

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Tuesday, March 24, 2009

The important thing is not to stop questioning.

Albert Einstein

Spiritual Spring Cleaning, Life Reflections of the Soul

By Caryl Loper

March 20th, ushers in spring, a time of renewal, growth, change and life reflections. It is the occasion to reflect into the pool of one’s soul, to expose and unsheathe the inner core of one’s being, to challenge oneself to internal growth, to start anew, fresh with pure delight that change can be a celebration.

It is a time to renew and reinstate one’s aspirations, hopes and dreams, to fulfill one’s destiny. Spring is the season of greenery, a brightness of mass appeal that echoes out life and beauty.

Go within to reveal and revel in the beauty of who you are, paint your life with wide brush strokes of yellows, greens, pinks and oranges that illustrate the magical essence of your being.

So often we simply forget who we are, where we are going and why, and tap into self doubt, anxiety, worry, despair, loss of hope, loss of self-fulfillment and self-actualization.

When the outside world spins, what appears as spinning out of control, know that all circumstances essentially are created for inner growth, and our only demise is the echo of the ego that rehearses and reiterates what the mind states we have lost, what we are
incapable of and how we have not achieved our goals.

In reality, the only control we have is our inner perceptions and how we react to the outer influences. Engage yourself in self-stroking, positive reinforcement and appeal to yourself with such thoughts that all present experiences are simply opportunities for soul growth.

Once you can achieve this awareness, walk this walk, your life becomes more in balance. Create a healthier perception and you not only entice a wellness within; likewise, you project a sense of well being and your outer persona radiates self-assurance, peace and harmony, appreciation and gratitude for life’s gifts.

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Tuesday, March 17, 2009

To Thy Known Self Be True

I have sent a lot of energy over the past 15 yrs entrenched in personal development. So many great coaches and mentors, sharing what has worked for them and how it would impact my life to emulate their patterns.

I have taken it all in and have been overwhelmed at times, hearing something delivered with so much power that I was ready to cut my hair , shave and purchase sport coats, thinking that was the missing piece. I was lead to believe by some, that people are threatened by appearances that are different then their own. The message was to conform.

Then two days after watching a video of a well known speaker driving the message of a suit and tie, I received another video, the other side of the coin you might say.

In this video, I saw a guy, who looked like me—after a day at the beach, promoting a high price package sitting behind a table with the box of stuff in front of him, many times covering his mouth with his hands or the product. The over casual approach and body language raised my buttons and I turned it off with out ever seeing the entire clip.

This alarmed me that I was put off by someone who looked closer to me than the suit and tie guy. Was I secretly afraid of his look and did not want to trust him? Did I need to move closer to the “other side” to gain acceptance? More confusion arose when I learned that the long hair guy , reportedly sold millions of dollars of product in just a couple of days with this clip.

You can never say the wrong thing to the right person or the right thing to the wrong person.

What I learned was to thy known self be true. Trying to fit in to another view of what is easier from them to handle , will lead to inner turmoil, always chasing for someone’s approval.

No manner what we are promoting, the real product is you. People will be drawn to you and your personality and values. There are a huge number of things people are looking for in any relationship—personal, or business—there is more than enough for all without trying to clone one another as the only way. Systems and duplication are important but need to be tweaked depending on the audience.

What has worked for you ? I am interested in learning from your experiences in being true to yourself and creating a public image that people are drawn to.